When I get stressed, the littlest things bother me. I get annoyed at everyone. I have a coworker who loves attention, and loves to feel depended on. She also talks about people behind their backs. It can weigh on a person. I found myself really starting to hate her these last couple of weeks.
However, after reading the stories on this site, I realized how misguided I am. So what if she likes attention? So what if she talks about people? I am not in charge of her. There are so many things she does well. So what if she has unpleasant character traits, as well? Don’t we all?
There’s so much good in this world. So much good in MY LIFE! Why spend my time on things that upset me? That I have no control over?
I’m going to go in to work each day always looking for the good. There are plenty of people at work that are kind and hard-working. I just gotta shrug it off and go hang out with them.
Thanks, hatemycoworkers.com! You showed me how not to be! =)